Everyone, meet the latest entry into my personal rogues’ gallery–and this one is the Member of Parliament (MP) for a region in Ontario, Canada, named Haldimand-Norfolk (with which I am more familiar than I want to be), which gives context to a post from her Facebook account, which somehow made its way into my feed, as I don’t follow Lewis.
I’m entering Dr. Lewis in my personal rogues’ gallery because she’s decrying Bill C-16, which clearly indicates that the government is acknowledging, and possibly clamping down on, coercive control in interpersonal relationships–as it’s posted in Lewis’s Facebook post. But here’s what Lewis had to say about it:
‘Do you think the government should criminalize everyday interactions in your home with your family? If not, you should read Bill C-16.
The bill creates new offences (Criminal Code Section 264.01), which are deeply concerning for normal, loving family interactions, based on a “pattern of coercive or controlling conduct,” even when no violence, threats, or illegal acts occur.
It criminalizes a pattern of otherwise lawful and often common behaviour that may later be perceived as threatening by an intimate partner.
That means ordinary family interactions could be re-interpreted as criminal after the fact.
Examples include:
– Asking a spouse where they are after they said they’d be home
-Expressing concern about excessive drinking
-Disagreeing about finances or spending
-Asking a partner not to give children junk food
– Raising concerns about time away from family
– Setting household boundaries or expectations
These are not crimes. They are part of marriage, parenting, and shared responsibility.
This does not diminish the seriousness of coercive control in genuinely abusive relationships. But criminal law should target clear abuse and violence, which are already addressed in law.
Bill C-16, as written, opens the door to police intervention in the homes of ordinary families.’
With these remarks, Dr. Lewis has made it clear that she has not read Bill C-16–or all of it (or she has and only half-understands it)–part of which, I repeat, she has included in her Facebook post. Though she states in her post that her comments do ‘not diminish the seriousness of coercive control in genuinely abusive relationships,’ the ‘points’ she’s made don’t even show up in the part of Bill C-16 that she’s included in her post. My response can only be, “What the actual fuck?”
As I’ve mentioned, though, Dr. Lewis is the Member of Parliament for an Ontario, Canada region named Haldimand-Norfolk, which is known for being a conservative stronghold, and she is a member of the Conservative Party of Canada (no surprise, since nearly all of Haldimand-Norfolk’s Members of Parliament–that I know of–have been members of the Conservative Party of Canada).
But this latest escapade…
Full disclosure: I grew up in a violent environment, in which I’ve constantly had to walk on eggshells around those who were supposed to take care of me until I was able to take care of myself. Ergo, I am more familiar with domestic violence and its effects than I want to be–and it’s a huge reason why I’ve been single and child-free my entire adulthood, and remain so to this day. Also, knowing as I do about Sarma Melngailis‘s story, I have to wonder how and why anyone with even the tiniest iota of empathy would object to a bill like Bill C-16–which acknowledges and attempts to address the issue of coercive control. But the Conservative Party of Canada, from where I’m standing, doesn’t have a history of empathy or compassion for those who don’t fit their view of humanity, especially under the leadership of the likes of Pierre Poilievre and, during his time as party leader, Stephen Harper. As well, I’ve spent just over five years of my life in the Haldimand-Norfolk region, so I know the general prevailing social attitudes and political atmosphere there–so Dr. Lewis fits right in, and no doubt represents that region well.
I don’t know Dr. Lewis’s personal history, so I don’t know if she’s ever been in an abusive, violent, or coercively-controlling relationship, so I don’t know why she’s trashing and misrepresenting Bill C-16, to the point where she’s fear-mongering to convince the Senate and the House of Commons to vote against it–and the public to convince them to do so–even though the bill itself sounds reasonable. But given that Dr. Lewis is a member of the Conservative Party of Canada–and how that conservatism has expressed itself in recent years, especially under Poilievre…
Given Pierre Poilievre himself has stated he wants society to return to what he’s called ‘the merit principle’ to justify why he wants to do away with diversity, equity, and inclusion (DEI) programs in Canada, I have no doubt that Dr. Leslyn Lewis is merely parroting the Conservative Party’s thoughts about Bill C-16, and the powers that be acting to prevent coercive control and clean up the messes it leads to…or, at the very least, the Conservative Party agrees with what she’s said about the bill.
As far as what Dr. Lewis said about ‘police intervention’ in ordinary families’ homes…I have no doubt that wouldn’t be a problem for Dr. Lewis or other members of the Conservative Party if police here were entering private homes for the same reasons that ICE in the United States does–again, her comment about ‘police intervention’ in her post about Bill C-16 is not just fear-mongering, but hypocritical as well.
As for Bill C-16 itself, all I can say is–from what I’ve read of it–it’s about damn time…even if it does, at best, just address the tip of the iceberg.
For those of you wondering why I am paying attention to anything Dr. Leslyn Lewis or any other member of the Conservative Party says, Dr. Lewis’s comments about Bill C-16 and, through it, the government’s attempts to curtail coercive control and the havoc it wreaks–along with comments and statements so many other members of the Conservative Party have made–put people in danger if those in power act according to those comments and statements, and not empathy.
Dr Lewis’s post: https://www.facebook.com/LeslynLewisCPC/posts/pfbid0LTChBL3cLdR8D9uqVxJ1CDFBhcrDf8MW93Tzze8FYCABjGCYnHfoR98M3YnV8pnml